I wish I could have given good news, unfortunately even after how perfect this last round went, we are left with a negative result. I am completely devastated.
Our last hopes now are frozen. I go in tomorrow for a scan and to start BCP until we can figure out how we are going to pay for this last attempt since we already had to take out a loan for this fresh cycle.
I need a lot of support to get through this.
Infertility is not a temporary condition 
Absolutely not fair. I am so sorry. I am ready and willing to be any type of support you need.
Thank you. Tomorrow I go in for a scan and to start bcp. We just got the cost of the frozen cycle and I am hoping we can get that paid for quickly so we can start. I need this to work.
My thoughts are with you. I know how much you must want this, it’s the hardest thing you will ever go through. Sending you big hugs and strength to get through until the next phase. Come on frozen embies!!!!
Ugh. I’m sorry. And I hate so much that something like MONEY is always a concern when trying to build a family.
I wish this state mandated fertility treatments being covered under insurance…if it were I would do everything I could and then some if I didn’t have limits. Money is crap.
That’s what I hate about celebrities and their “miracle” babies. Yeah, you had millions of dollars to spend. Cry to someone else. Most of us can’t afford it.
Great big hug. I’m so sorry Dear. We’re here for support. Sending you love, strength, and faith.
I’m so sorry. I wish that IVF was the miracle that we all want. You are in my thoughts.
Oh, friend. I’m so so sorry. There are no other words, really, except to say that this really really really sucks. Thinking of you like crazy. xo
You sound like my doctor. Thank you so much. I’m going to keep on fighting, this is a battle I intend on winning.
I’m so sorry to hear of your negative beta. It’s heartbreaking after having your hopes up. Good luck funding your FET, at least it’s significant cheaper than the fresh cycle.
That’s the only good thing about this bad situation. It’s only 25% of the cost…still significant…still sucks…but we have never made it to freeze before so hopefully this is our final try with a success. Thank you ❤️
Shit – I am so very sorry. This is truly not fair.
Thank you so much. I am trying so hard to stay strong but sometimes weakness is inevitable. I need to cry this out and keep on fighting. My doctor seems really hopeful with the frozen blasts.
Oh no no no. I have been thinking about you all day but only just got back and able to check in. I’m so sorry, this is just complete rubbish. I wish there was something I could say. You always have something supportive and great to say to me. We are all still here cheering you on… Just wish there was more I could do (or say) apart from this is truly unfair and crap.
I know it is. But please know that I will keep fighting for what I want. This may be a set back in our journey but it is not the end. We will keep pushing. We have 3 beautiful frozen embryos and they are willing to put 2 back in. We have some hope. We will keep pushing. This is just a shitty end to what was seemingly a perfect cycle. Thank you so much for always keeping with us and supporting us. I am in tears but still willing to fight for what I want…what I need.
You are so right… 3 frozen embryos waiting for you is brilliant. It’s so disappointing that a cycle that went really well didn’t turn out happier, but I’m glad you can be so positive. I hope you are doing okay today xxx
i’m so sorry. i hope you can feel the support from everyone from afar.
I’m so sorry you’re enduring this. But don’t lose heart. I was totally devastated when our fresh cycle didn’t work last Feb. Unbelievably our FET worked in Aug as you know. The waiting and saving will be worth it!
Oh my goodness… I am so very sorry to hear these results. Many well wishes and prauers for you as you get back on your feet for another round.
I’m so sorry. I hope you’re able to get started with the FET as soon as you feel up to it. Hugs.
Oh no- I am so so sorry… was praying that this cycle would work. You are unbelievably strong…thinking of you and hoping the FET give you positive results. Hugs xx
I got pregnant from frozen embryos, not a fresh cycle. Best of luck, have you considered acupuncture?
Oh shit. I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself.
Bugger – so sorry to hear this news. Your comments come through so strong and positive… you are a total inspiration to us all.
You are so lucky to have some frozen embryos though… I’ve got everything so tightly crossed that one of them comes through for you. Best of luck for the journey ahead, and lots of hugs for the journey that’s just come to an end.
xxx
I’m really sorry! Best of luck with the frozen embies!