Beta Results

I wish I could have given good news, unfortunately even after how perfect this last round went, we are left with a negative result.  I am completely devastated.

Our last hopes now are frozen.  I go in tomorrow for a scan and to start BCP until we can figure out how we are going to pay for this last attempt since we already had to take out a loan for this fresh cycle.

I need a lot of support to get through this.


26 thoughts on “Beta Results

    • Thank you. Tomorrow I go in for a scan and to start bcp. We just got the cost of the frozen cycle and I am hoping we can get that paid for quickly so we can start. I need this to work.

  1. My thoughts are with you. I know how much you must want this, it’s the hardest thing you will ever go through. Sending you big hugs and strength to get through until the next phase. Come on frozen embies!!!!

    • I wish this state mandated fertility treatments being covered under insurance…if it were I would do everything I could and then some if I didn’t have limits. Money is crap.

      • That’s what I hate about celebrities and their “miracle” babies. Yeah, you had millions of dollars to spend. Cry to someone else. Most of us can’t afford it.

    • I’m so sorry to hear of your negative beta. It’s heartbreaking after having your hopes up. Good luck funding your FET, at least it’s significant cheaper than the fresh cycle.

      • That’s the only good thing about this bad situation. It’s only 25% of the cost…still significant…still sucks…but we have never made it to freeze before so hopefully this is our final try with a success. Thank you ❤️

    • Thank you so much. I am trying so hard to stay strong but sometimes weakness is inevitable. I need to cry this out and keep on fighting. My doctor seems really hopeful with the frozen blasts.

  2. Oh no no no. I have been thinking about you all day but only just got back and able to check in. I’m so sorry, this is just complete rubbish. I wish there was something I could say. You always have something supportive and great to say to me. We are all still here cheering you on… Just wish there was more I could do (or say) apart from this is truly unfair and crap.

    • I know it is. But please know that I will keep fighting for what I want. This may be a set back in our journey but it is not the end. We will keep pushing. We have 3 beautiful frozen embryos and they are willing to put 2 back in. We have some hope. We will keep pushing. This is just a shitty end to what was seemingly a perfect cycle. Thank you so much for always keeping with us and supporting us. I am in tears but still willing to fight for what I want…what I need.

      • You are so right… 3 frozen embryos waiting for you is brilliant. It’s so disappointing that a cycle that went really well didn’t turn out happier, but I’m glad you can be so positive. I hope you are doing okay today xxx

  3. I’m so sorry you’re enduring this. But don’t lose heart. I was totally devastated when our fresh cycle didn’t work last Feb. Unbelievably our FET worked in Aug as you know. The waiting and saving will be worth it!

  4. Oh no- I am so so sorry… was praying that this cycle would work. You are unbelievably strong…thinking of you and hoping the FET give you positive results. Hugs xx

  5. Bugger – so sorry to hear this news. Your comments come through so strong and positive… you are a total inspiration to us all.

    You are so lucky to have some frozen embryos though… I’ve got everything so tightly crossed that one of them comes through for you. Best of luck for the journey ahead, and lots of hugs for the journey that’s just come to an end.


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